When I ask wealth holders, “What is the purpose of your wealth?” a long, awkward silence usually follows, eventually giving way to a tentative response: “Stewardship—it’s my job to be a good steward of this wealth. I want my children to be good stewards of this wealth.” Stewardship has long been the gold standard for how we (wealth creators, professional advisors, and Western society) want family members to think about their relationship with their multigenerational financial wealth. On paper, stewardship checks all the right boxes: It is rooted in the noble idea of working together as a family, managing and preserving financial wealth responsibly for future generations. Stewardship is a powerful force for shifting the focus away from “me” towards “us” — from “what do I want now?” to “what is my role in leveraging these resources to move towards our shared goals?”