Setting the table for success

Coming together during the holidays can evoke complex emotions, ranging from excitement to anxiety to even a sense of gloom amid seemingly new norms of polarization. But when we come to the table resigned to disappointment, we close ourselves off to opportunities to strengthen trust and deepen bonds.

Approach your holiday table with intentionality

As we gather—virtually or in person—we have the choice to pause, reflect and reconnect. We can decide to bring new skills and approaches to our tables that are more likely to strengthen connections and build trust. We can replace performative behaviors with authenticity, turn conflict into moments of credibility, and use curiosity to create connection—all with the goal of leading our families toward better outcomes.

For practical tips on rethinking your family interactions, watch our most recent webinar What Will You Bring to Your Table? A Conversation for Family Thriving This Holiday Season.

Set a plan that strengthens the family  

Just as gathering for the holidays can strengthen family ties, thoughtful estate planning and purposeful trusts can grow and extend family thriving across generations.[1]  In effective planning,  electing the right trustee is a critical—and often overlooked—part of “setting the table” for enduring stewardship of your family’s values, financial wealth, and intentions. Increasingly, families are turning to corporate trustees to provide expertise, impartiality, and durability. Pathstone affiliate Willow Street has created a detailed explanation of the differences between individual and corporate trustees and approaches to engaging trustees in their article Understanding the Benefits of a Corporate Trustee.  

Willow Street, a Pathstone affiliate, provides responsive, relationship-focused professional trustee services in Wyoming and Nevada.

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Strategic Business Planning Opportunities: New possibilities for proactive and strategic planning

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